Hey everyone,
Firstly, I would like to thank any and every one who've read and commented on my previous posts. Your advices were sound and helpful. Thank you. Now, back to the story.
I was driving my wife to school this morning and it was raining. I usually would be heading to work right after dropping her off but today was going to be different. Due to project needs, I will be working from 2.30pm till 12.00am. This means that I have a few hours to kill before I head to work. Anyways, back to my story. After dropping her off, a local radio station, mix.fm, started playing "One Love" by Blues. I don't know if its merely coincidental or what, but quite often I have found that mix.fm plays songs which matches what you are going through or what you want to hear. I know it could be a case of making the evidence fit the crime but why not?
I'm sure most, if not all, of you have heard "One Love" before. The lyrics talk about a person's life changing overnight. His love left him when he woke up (literally changing his life overnight) but he refused to give up. His heart is broken when he thought it would never be, but he will survive, because one love is all he needs.
The lyrics pretty much describe my current situation. At least I think it does. While previously I was negative about the whole thing, I no longer am. Through various comments and advices from friends and strangers alike, I'm approaching this whole situation differently.
While I am still sad about my situation, I am no longer hating those two guys. They're doing what many guys would do when they see a pretty girl. And its my fault for making my wife fall out of love with me. So I'm not going to blame anyone any longer. I'm just going to do what I can to make my wife fall in love with me again. I refuse to give up.
20 comments:
Yes, it is not anyone's fault. Not yours either. Know what you want, believe in it, keep the faith. If everything works out, if it does not, you know you've done all that you could. Don't regret.
I know this is a very hard time 4 u.But I'm sure u r strong enough to handle & overcome this!Just to remind u that "LOVE" is always a 2ways traffic!And what is yours is yours,if not,just let it go!And always remember that, if u need anything, there is always a place call "HOME"!!!And u know u can get your warmest welcome.The door is always open!Keep it up!I will give u my full support.
trust
Yeah, trust is the word.Without trust, there can't be anything else - no trust is equivalent to no love, no understanding, no nothing! So, be more trusting and know that assumptions can lead to a lot of misunderstandings and uncalled-for trouble and injustice to an innocent party who has done you no wrong
Uncle eric, us sound n act lk her father, instead of her husband, very scary leh.
Hi Eric,
Seems that u r not blogging anymore - don't stop - it's good for the soul, especially, when it's still hurting.To be very frank with you, I feel that everything is self-inflicted - no girl in her right sense of mind would marry a guy she doesn't love or see no future with. She has chosen u and not anybody else - u r her hubby and they r merely her friends - so why be so worked-up and behave as if it's the end of the world???
Come on, cheer up, be more positive-minded and carry on blogging - share with us your good news that everything is alright now! Cheers from a very concerned blogger!
Hi all,
There are many anonymous so I don't know whom the comments are from. But they are not merely friends. It is not an assumption by me. It is the truth.
Since I've stopped blogging here, my wife has chosen one of them as her boyfriend, claiming that he is the one she loves and wants to be with.
The other guy she thinks about and still spends time alone with. So in essence, you could say that she is having a boyfriend but still seeing another. Both of them used to be close friends but now quite distant as I have heard.
But it doesn't matter. I have to accept this as my fate. And to the concerned blogger, I did not stop blogging. I just stopped blogging here. I have started a new blog. (See if anyone can guess and find it. Haha)
Blogging is healing.
Take care guys.
Thank you
"Why so serious...?" - the joker
Marriage is fated and hope both of you will make it thru'. Remember marriage is a long journey ....maybe mishap and
difficult along the way and need both of you to be strong. Life is too short to look backwards. Whatever be, will be. JJ
If I were you, I'll pack my bags. If she could treat you this way, she's not worth the trouble.
I don't see udpates. Don't stop writing - its good for the soul.
i m not yr frenz nor relative, i just happen to look for something and bump into yr blog, from what i c, u got some mental problem n best medication for u is to go into mental hospital - anyway, best solution for yr wife, who ever she is to break free from u, i hope she lvs u soon coz u r reali dangerous man. Dun bother to reply coz i wl not be coming back to this blog.
OMG, I like that comment, you ought to be shot and please do yourself a favour, the mental hospital is calling you, it is time for you to check in there.
hey you two anonymous out there, not mental hospital la, this guy sound like a sex maniac, better watch out for him lor.
ni chui sie ba, nie cher xia ren, pui sie yer mei you yoong liao
Hope you can recover soon....
enough of you all. you all not a help at all.. mr eric. good luck to you. no matter what decision u made.. ii hope that give the best path to evryone.. to the two.. sad to see you all no longer a friend becus of a gal.. sigh..
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